As a former thief and now a counselor for a theft class I am well-aware of the reasons people shoplift. Research from my students shows that less than one out of ten steal because they need the item shoplifted.
More than four in five of my students (82%) enjoy the rush they get from shoplifting. They like the thrill of getting away with it and feeling like they beat the system. It makes them feel "special". Many students will speak openly about daydreaming of shoplifting scenarios.
Like many thrills, the excitement from shoplifting can be habit forming. However, if you are stealing, you need to find another way to get your kicks.
One place to start is a hobby. Having a hobby to focus on will keep you from thinking about shoplifting. A number of my students have taken up ceramics. While not necessarily thrilling, the pride of accomplishment, of creating something from nothing, has really helped them kick their urge to steal. They feel good about themselves and have greater internal satisfaction. Gardening would be another good hobby.
If you absolutely must have lots of excitement and stimulation, take up a sporting hobby. Rock climbing, hiking, spelunking, rafting, skiing and snowboarding are all high-thrill sports that will help keep the need to steal at bay.
Monday, December 17, 2012
Friday, December 14, 2012
A Theft Class Can Help You with Your Debt Problem
With the bills piling higher and higher, you are probably wondering how you are going to get yourself out of this terrible mess. Should you take a second job? Cut back more on your necessities? Or resort to stealing to make ends meet?
Well there's an alternative solution to theft and petty larceny and that's taking a online theft class. What a theft class will teach you is how to keep your impulses under control. Instead of coveting what you see in the store that you can't afford, you'll think of some great alternatives.
Debt consolidation is just one alternative. What that lets you do is take all your high priced credit card bills and combine them together into one low interest rate loan. By lowering your monthly debt burden you'll take pressure off yourself and be less tempted to steal or shoplift.
Well there's an alternative solution to theft and petty larceny and that's taking a online theft class. What a theft class will teach you is how to keep your impulses under control. Instead of coveting what you see in the store that you can't afford, you'll think of some great alternatives.
Debt consolidation is just one alternative. What that lets you do is take all your high priced credit card bills and combine them together into one low interest rate loan. By lowering your monthly debt burden you'll take pressure off yourself and be less tempted to steal or shoplift.
Tuesday, December 11, 2012
What Merchants Do with People Who Shoplift
Do you know what merchants do to people they catch shoplifting? If you ever have been caught you might have an idea. Actually, the reaction of a merchant to a shoplifter can vary greatly.
Merchants can go so far as to call the police and make sure charges are pressed, or they can be as lenient as letting you off with a warning. If you are a minor they may just call your parents and have them come and pick you up. Even if you aren't arrested, they may require you to take a shoplifting class. Also, merchants will often completely ban you from coming to the store again.
One of the most important factors in determining how you will be treated after being caught is your attitude. If you apologize and show genuine remorse, the likelihood of the merchant going easy on you greatly improves. I can assure you that a bad attitude will result in you being arrested and prosecuted to the full-extent of the law. Certainly if this happens you could go to jail, pay a very large fine and be required to take an online theft class.
Another factor in determining your outcome is the attitude of the merchant. If they have had a ongoing problem with shoplifting, you will likely be prosecuted. Some merchants understand a youthful desire to defy the rules by stealing and if you are sincerely sorry, there is a chance they may go easy on you.
A third factor is store policy. Many stores now have policies in place that store security has to detain you and call the police. Your best bet here is sincerely apologetic and remorseful.
It is still better not steal. Being an honorable person, counts!
Merchants can go so far as to call the police and make sure charges are pressed, or they can be as lenient as letting you off with a warning. If you are a minor they may just call your parents and have them come and pick you up. Even if you aren't arrested, they may require you to take a shoplifting class. Also, merchants will often completely ban you from coming to the store again.
One of the most important factors in determining how you will be treated after being caught is your attitude. If you apologize and show genuine remorse, the likelihood of the merchant going easy on you greatly improves. I can assure you that a bad attitude will result in you being arrested and prosecuted to the full-extent of the law. Certainly if this happens you could go to jail, pay a very large fine and be required to take an online theft class.
Another factor in determining your outcome is the attitude of the merchant. If they have had a ongoing problem with shoplifting, you will likely be prosecuted. Some merchants understand a youthful desire to defy the rules by stealing and if you are sincerely sorry, there is a chance they may go easy on you.
A third factor is store policy. Many stores now have policies in place that store security has to detain you and call the police. Your best bet here is sincerely apologetic and remorseful.
It is still better not steal. Being an honorable person, counts!
Saturday, December 8, 2012
Avoid Being Arrested for Shoplifting when You're on Vacation
If you're on vacation, you're going to do lots of different things. Maybe you'll relax by the pool or partake in fun activities like fishing or snorkeling. At some point, you may even go shopping for souvenirs
or trinkets at your destination.
But one thing you want to avoid is shoplifting when you travel. Being arrested for shoplifting or theft where you live is one thing. Maybe you'll have to go to jail for a short amount of time or be required to take a shoplifting class but you do not want to be arrested in a foreign country or town.
If you get arrested for shoplifting, theft or petit larceny when you are traveling or on vacation, then you're in for a great deal of trouble. You'll have to deal with being arrested in a different state or foreign country. You'll go to a great deal of expense getting local lawyers to deal with your court case. And as an out of towner, you'll have to travel back and forth to deal with the consequences of your arrest.
How would you like to have to fly back and forth once a week to take a theft class or to handle court appearances? I can't imagine a more difficult scenario!
And if you're in a foreign country and have been arrested, the penalties can be far greater than in your home country and state. Some countries have long jail sentences for theft and shoplifting. Unlike in the U.S. where a first time offender might get off with a slap on the wrist, you might months or even years of jail time in front of you.
So think before you consider shoplifting or stealing when you're traveling. It could be the biggest mistake of your life!
But one thing you want to avoid is shoplifting when you travel. Being arrested for shoplifting or theft where you live is one thing. Maybe you'll have to go to jail for a short amount of time or be required to take a shoplifting class but you do not want to be arrested in a foreign country or town.
If you get arrested for shoplifting, theft or petit larceny when you are traveling or on vacation, then you're in for a great deal of trouble. You'll have to deal with being arrested in a different state or foreign country. You'll go to a great deal of expense getting local lawyers to deal with your court case. And as an out of towner, you'll have to travel back and forth to deal with the consequences of your arrest.
How would you like to have to fly back and forth once a week to take a theft class or to handle court appearances? I can't imagine a more difficult scenario!
And if you're in a foreign country and have been arrested, the penalties can be far greater than in your home country and state. Some countries have long jail sentences for theft and shoplifting. Unlike in the U.S. where a first time offender might get off with a slap on the wrist, you might months or even years of jail time in front of you.
So think before you consider shoplifting or stealing when you're traveling. It could be the biggest mistake of your life!
Wednesday, December 5, 2012
I Saw Grandma Stealing Cat Food
The other day in the grocery store I was in the pet food aisle and was shocked when only 10 feet away I saw an older woman secretly putting cans of cat food in her purse.
It was difficult to know what to do. On one hand stealing and shoplifting is a crime. Somebody who shoplifts deserves to be arrested. Most likely this woman wouldn't go to jail but instead would have to take a shoplifting class.
But on the other hand, maybe she can't afford the food and doesn't have the money to keep her cats alive. And what does it matter that a couple dollars worth of cat food is taken from a big rich grocery store.
But that's really bad thinking. If somebody steals from a store everybody is affected. The store loses money and has to raise prices for everybody else. So the best thing to do is report this person to store management. And if this grandmother has a problem, then the theft and shoplifting class will most likely be a huge help.
It was difficult to know what to do. On one hand stealing and shoplifting is a crime. Somebody who shoplifts deserves to be arrested. Most likely this woman wouldn't go to jail but instead would have to take a shoplifting class.
But on the other hand, maybe she can't afford the food and doesn't have the money to keep her cats alive. And what does it matter that a couple dollars worth of cat food is taken from a big rich grocery store.
But that's really bad thinking. If somebody steals from a store everybody is affected. The store loses money and has to raise prices for everybody else. So the best thing to do is report this person to store management. And if this grandmother has a problem, then the theft and shoplifting class will most likely be a huge help.
Sunday, December 2, 2012
There is Nothing Worse Than Stealing from Friends
Human interaction and personal relationships are what life is all about. Bonding with people and being in close, sharing and supportive relationships, make life worth living. Keeping strong and healthy relationships with friends and family are essential to human happiness.
Given all of the above it would seem to be a no-brainer that you wouldn't steal from your friends. As a counselor for stop theft classes I find it amazing that the majority of my students have stolen from their friends at one time or another.
The Motto
The following phrase was uttered to me by a sponsor after one of my many theft-related incidents. "Never steal from someone who trusts you, and never trust someone who steals from you."
Those are wise words to live by. One of the most basic elements of human relationships is trust. Without trust, the relationship will not survive. If a friend steals from you, will you ever feel the same way about the person again?
Don't risk losing a friend. Do not steal from them. If you have a friend who you know has a problem with theft, make sure you communicate with them. Try to get them to take a theft class online, and make sure they know that stealing from you would dissolve your bond.
Given all of the above it would seem to be a no-brainer that you wouldn't steal from your friends. As a counselor for stop theft classes I find it amazing that the majority of my students have stolen from their friends at one time or another.
The Motto
The following phrase was uttered to me by a sponsor after one of my many theft-related incidents. "Never steal from someone who trusts you, and never trust someone who steals from you."
Those are wise words to live by. One of the most basic elements of human relationships is trust. Without trust, the relationship will not survive. If a friend steals from you, will you ever feel the same way about the person again?
Don't risk losing a friend. Do not steal from them. If you have a friend who you know has a problem with theft, make sure you communicate with them. Try to get them to take a theft class online, and make sure they know that stealing from you would dissolve your bond.
Friday, November 30, 2012
Stop Theft Class Will Keep Women from Shoplifting
As a counselor for both in-class shoplifting and online stop theft classes I can tell you there seems to be more female shoplifters than male. Growing up it seemed like the boys were the ones pushing the envelope and taking more risks like shoplifting.
Now there are just as many female juvenile shoplifters as male. The number of adult women ages 21-70 who shoplift is greater than the number of men! Can this be possible?
In my previous five stop theft classes, I had 96 students. What are your perceptions of the demographics of this sample of students?
Of this group 38% were women (37). However, the telling number lies with those under the age of 21. More than 72% (69) were under the age of 21. Of those over the age of 21, 81% (22) were female.
Why do you think women are more apt to shoplift as adults? Is it that they are not as good and get caught more often?
I have witnessed an alarming trend that mothers have been out shoplifting with their children acting as accomplices. I don’t hear about dads and their kids out stealing together. I welcome your input.
Wednesday, November 28, 2012
Who Gets Hurt by Shoplifting?
A good shoplifting class will tell you that everyone pays for shoplifting. It's not a victimless crime.
The first party injured by shoplifting is the merchant. Stores are not just a public good, but are there to make a profit. Stolen goods mean less profit. When a store makes less profit it has no alternative but to increase it's prices and security (which costs more money).
This leads to the second group affected by shoplifting, consumers. If stores have to raise prices, consumers have to spend more for their products. This is often a direct result of shoplifting and increased security measures.
The third group affected by shoplifting is our entire society. While one store having to raise prices for its products as a result of shoplifting only affects its customers, the thief being prosecuted uses valuable tax dollars to be arrested, prosecuted and punished. These extra dollars needed to process the shoplifter through the legal system will create greater need for increased sales and property taxes. If the city raises property taxes, all retailers have to increase prices to cover the added tax cost.
Getting back to the original question, it seems obvious that everyone pays for shoplifting.
The first party injured by shoplifting is the merchant. Stores are not just a public good, but are there to make a profit. Stolen goods mean less profit. When a store makes less profit it has no alternative but to increase it's prices and security (which costs more money).
This leads to the second group affected by shoplifting, consumers. If stores have to raise prices, consumers have to spend more for their products. This is often a direct result of shoplifting and increased security measures.
The third group affected by shoplifting is our entire society. While one store having to raise prices for its products as a result of shoplifting only affects its customers, the thief being prosecuted uses valuable tax dollars to be arrested, prosecuted and punished. These extra dollars needed to process the shoplifter through the legal system will create greater need for increased sales and property taxes. If the city raises property taxes, all retailers have to increase prices to cover the added tax cost.
Getting back to the original question, it seems obvious that everyone pays for shoplifting.
Saturday, November 24, 2012
When Roommates Steal
Does your roommate or need a theft class? Does he or she steal? If they steal, even once, it needs to be addressed. If they steal more than once, the problem is probably quite serious.
There are many signs when someone has a problem with theft. The most obvious and annoying sign is when your things go missing and you find them in your roommate's room. Sometimes this will start out with her "borrowing" a pair of earrings or clothes and not returning them until you ask. If this happens more than once, be on the alert, there may be a problem.
As a counselor for both in-class and online theft classes I speak to both victims and thieves all the time.
Other signs that your roommate has a theft problem include: no longer worrying about money, wearing new, expensive clothes or jewelry they can't really afford, and being careless with stuff in general like borrowing things without asking and being entitled and self important.
Theft and shoplifting are serious problems and can really ruin someone's life. If you or someone you care about has a theft or shoplifting problem, please seek help. There are numerous social support organizations and in person and online theft classes.
There are many signs when someone has a problem with theft. The most obvious and annoying sign is when your things go missing and you find them in your roommate's room. Sometimes this will start out with her "borrowing" a pair of earrings or clothes and not returning them until you ask. If this happens more than once, be on the alert, there may be a problem.
As a counselor for both in-class and online theft classes I speak to both victims and thieves all the time.
Other signs that your roommate has a theft problem include: no longer worrying about money, wearing new, expensive clothes or jewelry they can't really afford, and being careless with stuff in general like borrowing things without asking and being entitled and self important.
Theft and shoplifting are serious problems and can really ruin someone's life. If you or someone you care about has a theft or shoplifting problem, please seek help. There are numerous social support organizations and in person and online theft classes.
Tuesday, November 20, 2012
What You Might Learn from a Theft Class
As a counselor for an online theft class I am often asked what someone might get out of taking a theft or shoplifting class. People generally think the only thing you learn in a theft class is to be beaten over the head that you should not steal. That is not the case.
Can you guess the reason why 99% of the students take my class? If you guessed to better educate themselves about the dangers of shoplifting you would be incorrect. Of course most people take stop theft classes because it has been court-ordered.
The courts mandate theft classes so that people who have had at least one theft-related incident can learn from past mistakes and refrain from stealing again in the future.
In a typical 8-hour course you will take an introspective look at your motivations and encouraged to ponder on why you have been stealing. The course can help you determine what triggers the impulse to steal.
The goal of the course is not only to make the student more self-aware, but it also provides practical lessons on how to deal with these emotional triggers when they recur.
Can you guess the reason why 99% of the students take my class? If you guessed to better educate themselves about the dangers of shoplifting you would be incorrect. Of course most people take stop theft classes because it has been court-ordered.
The courts mandate theft classes so that people who have had at least one theft-related incident can learn from past mistakes and refrain from stealing again in the future.
In a typical 8-hour course you will take an introspective look at your motivations and encouraged to ponder on why you have been stealing. The course can help you determine what triggers the impulse to steal.
The goal of the course is not only to make the student more self-aware, but it also provides practical lessons on how to deal with these emotional triggers when they recur.
Saturday, November 17, 2012
I Want My New Girlfriend to Take a Theft Class
This is a very awkward situation. My new girlfriend has many qualities that I like a lot. She's pretty, intelligent, interesting, fun and talented. But there's one little quirk that is really starting to bother me. I think she likes to shoplift.
How do I know this? Often when I go to her house she has a new piece of clothing or pair of shoes. But strangely enough, I've never seen a shopping bag or even a receipt for the stuff that she buys. And also, she's a full time student who doesn't make much money, so I have doubt she can afford the high end merchandise I see her wearing.
So I'm beginning to suspect that she's not actually buying the clothing, jewelry, and make up she's wearing but she's taking them from the stores without paying. Her shoplifting behavior is a red flag and I really want her to take a theft class to get this problem under control. I don't think it's right for her to take things without paying for them nor do I want her to get caught and arrested. It would be embarrassing for her, for me and her family.
I wonder how I should tell her?
How do I know this? Often when I go to her house she has a new piece of clothing or pair of shoes. But strangely enough, I've never seen a shopping bag or even a receipt for the stuff that she buys. And also, she's a full time student who doesn't make much money, so I have doubt she can afford the high end merchandise I see her wearing.
So I'm beginning to suspect that she's not actually buying the clothing, jewelry, and make up she's wearing but she's taking them from the stores without paying. Her shoplifting behavior is a red flag and I really want her to take a theft class to get this problem under control. I don't think it's right for her to take things without paying for them nor do I want her to get caught and arrested. It would be embarrassing for her, for me and her family.
I wonder how I should tell her?
Tuesday, November 13, 2012
The History of Shoplifting Classes
So you're stuck in a situation where you have to take a theft class? But maybe you're wondering, how did I get here? How is it that people steal things without getting caught, but I did get caught?
Believe it or not, theft and shoplifting have been around for thousands of years. If you read the history of theft, you'll learn that there have been cases of theft and shoplifting in biblical times and even earlier. Why do you think "thou shalt not steal" is written in the bible? Even people in the pre-dark ages had to deal with thieves all the time.
And the penalties for theft were much much harsher back then. Often thieves were put to death without any sort of trial. Or other barbaric punishments occurred, such as their hands being cut off. So if you are required to sit in a theft class or shoplifting class, think of how lucky you are that you live in such enlightened and civilized times!
Believe it or not, theft and shoplifting have been around for thousands of years. If you read the history of theft, you'll learn that there have been cases of theft and shoplifting in biblical times and even earlier. Why do you think "thou shalt not steal" is written in the bible? Even people in the pre-dark ages had to deal with thieves all the time.
And the penalties for theft were much much harsher back then. Often thieves were put to death without any sort of trial. Or other barbaric punishments occurred, such as their hands being cut off. So if you are required to sit in a theft class or shoplifting class, think of how lucky you are that you live in such enlightened and civilized times!
Saturday, November 10, 2012
3 Reasons Why Shoplifting Will Ruin Your Life
Have you ever shoplifted or stolen anything? This can be as seemingly innocuous as stationery or office supplies from your job or a towel from a hotel room. More than likely, something has found its way to your home that did not legally belong to you.
While small items like an ink pen or hotel towel did not profoundly enhance your life, the act of stealing (even minor items) can seriously ruin your life. Here are some things to consider.
Reason #1 - You are Now Officially a Criminal
Getting arrested for shoplifting something small is a misdemeanor offense. It means you will have a criminal record.
Reason # 2 - Loss of Current Job
If you have a good job and get arrested for stealing, there is a good chance your employer will fire you for conduct detrimental to the moral code of the firm. It happened to me.
Reason # 3- Loss of Future employment opportunities
You know that section on an employment application that asks if you ever have been arrested? Back in the old days you could skip it and hope to escape without a future employer finding out but now with the Internet and inexpensive access to this information, you have to tell the truth.
How would you feel as an employer about hiring someone who has been arrested for theft?
Do yourself a favor and don't steal! And if you are tempted, take a theft class online.
While small items like an ink pen or hotel towel did not profoundly enhance your life, the act of stealing (even minor items) can seriously ruin your life. Here are some things to consider.
Reason #1 - You are Now Officially a Criminal
Getting arrested for shoplifting something small is a misdemeanor offense. It means you will have a criminal record.
Reason # 2 - Loss of Current Job
If you have a good job and get arrested for stealing, there is a good chance your employer will fire you for conduct detrimental to the moral code of the firm. It happened to me.
Reason # 3- Loss of Future employment opportunities
You know that section on an employment application that asks if you ever have been arrested? Back in the old days you could skip it and hope to escape without a future employer finding out but now with the Internet and inexpensive access to this information, you have to tell the truth.
How would you feel as an employer about hiring someone who has been arrested for theft?
Do yourself a favor and don't steal! And if you are tempted, take a theft class online.
Wednesday, November 7, 2012
Don't Be Tempted to Shoplift Just Because You Don't Have Money
Thanksgiving and Christmas are celebrations about giving.These holidays are intended to lift the spirits of humanity by celebrating gratitude, generosity, and faith. From the time we are children, we learn that Christmas is a time of giving (for kids it feels more like receiving).
One of my favorite phrases is, "it is in giving that we receive". It feels wonderful to bring someone else joy.
Unfortunately, many of us are constantly reminded that these holidays are about materialism and we feel pressure to make the biggest turkey or buy the perfect gift. Especially, during difficult economic times, we are afraid to scale back or let our family down. Some people will be tempted to shoplift. Please don't let this by you! Not only is it illegal to steal, but stolen merchandise has bad karma. And if you're caught, you'll probably have to take a theft class or even go to jail.
Giving is a Gift In Itself
Making someone's day with the perfect gift is great, but you can also light up their life with a gift of love. If you cannot afford an expensive watch or new ipad - make something special for the one you love and care about. Write them a letter letting sharing how you feel about them. Make a personalized Christmas card using crayons, paints, or markers. Bake a special batch of their favorite cookies and bring over a pot of tea. Such personalized gifts like letters and cards, are always valued.
So keep yourself out of trouble physically and spiritually by not stealing for the one you love. Instead bring out the better inner person and celebrate the holidays with kindness, gratitude, and personalized affordable gifts.
One of my favorite phrases is, "it is in giving that we receive". It feels wonderful to bring someone else joy.
Unfortunately, many of us are constantly reminded that these holidays are about materialism and we feel pressure to make the biggest turkey or buy the perfect gift. Especially, during difficult economic times, we are afraid to scale back or let our family down. Some people will be tempted to shoplift. Please don't let this by you! Not only is it illegal to steal, but stolen merchandise has bad karma. And if you're caught, you'll probably have to take a theft class or even go to jail.
Giving is a Gift In Itself
Making someone's day with the perfect gift is great, but you can also light up their life with a gift of love. If you cannot afford an expensive watch or new ipad - make something special for the one you love and care about. Write them a letter letting sharing how you feel about them. Make a personalized Christmas card using crayons, paints, or markers. Bake a special batch of their favorite cookies and bring over a pot of tea. Such personalized gifts like letters and cards, are always valued.
So keep yourself out of trouble physically and spiritually by not stealing for the one you love. Instead bring out the better inner person and celebrate the holidays with kindness, gratitude, and personalized affordable gifts.
Saturday, November 3, 2012
An Anti-Theft Class Might Be Good for Your Teenage Daughter
This is a subject that is very dear to my heart. As the father of a teenage girl you want to make sure they do not engage in any form of problematic behavior. This is especially true when it comes to matters of being in trouble with the law.
I admit - I was a compulsive thief and I had, and still have a problem with theft. I have not stolen anything for more than seven years, yet as a theft addict, I always will have a problem.
The first time I caught my daughter stealing she was four! It was a small figurine from a toy store that I told her she could not have. Imagine my surprise when I found that figurine in her pocket while doing the laundry three days later.
I gave my daughter the benefit of the doubt, asking my wife if somehow my little sweetheart had finagled her into buying it behind my back. Alas, my suspicions were confirmed when I realized the figurine had been purchased with a five-finger discount!
How I responded then is how I encourage of all of you to respond - make her take back the stolen item, admit their wrong doing and take an anti-theft class. I hope my steadfastness will keep my daughter from stealing again. Regardless of age, confront the issue head-on and take a shoplifting class.
I admit - I was a compulsive thief and I had, and still have a problem with theft. I have not stolen anything for more than seven years, yet as a theft addict, I always will have a problem.
The first time I caught my daughter stealing she was four! It was a small figurine from a toy store that I told her she could not have. Imagine my surprise when I found that figurine in her pocket while doing the laundry three days later.
I gave my daughter the benefit of the doubt, asking my wife if somehow my little sweetheart had finagled her into buying it behind my back. Alas, my suspicions were confirmed when I realized the figurine had been purchased with a five-finger discount!
How I responded then is how I encourage of all of you to respond - make her take back the stolen item, admit their wrong doing and take an anti-theft class. I hope my steadfastness will keep my daughter from stealing again. Regardless of age, confront the issue head-on and take a shoplifting class.
Thursday, November 1, 2012
Retailers Prefer Shoppers Who Have Taken a Shoplifting Class
Tis' the season for shoplifting. Unfortunately as beautiful as the holiday season is, this is the time of year when almost 30% of shoplifting occurs. We all like to give those we care about awesome gifts. For some, this also means stealing what you cannot afford.
Before breaking the law, I encourage each of you to take a stop theft class. Of course I am biased, because as a teacher of both in class and online theft classes, and as a former compulsive thief myself, I have a personal interest in the subject.
Professionally, my vested interest is in you getting caught. You being arrested for a theft-related offense means potential business for me. That I like.
More importantly though, I want the opportunity to have you in class or in my office, so that I can help counsel you on how to stop your problematic behavior. I want to help you stay on the straight and narrow and avoid shoplifting again.
Because people who take stop theft classes have a less chance of stealing again, retailers promote stop theft classes. Many retail employers mandate their new employees take an online theft class.
Before breaking the law, I encourage each of you to take a stop theft class. Of course I am biased, because as a teacher of both in class and online theft classes, and as a former compulsive thief myself, I have a personal interest in the subject.
Professionally, my vested interest is in you getting caught. You being arrested for a theft-related offense means potential business for me. That I like.
More importantly though, I want the opportunity to have you in class or in my office, so that I can help counsel you on how to stop your problematic behavior. I want to help you stay on the straight and narrow and avoid shoplifting again.
Because people who take stop theft classes have a less chance of stealing again, retailers promote stop theft classes. Many retail employers mandate their new employees take an online theft class.
Tuesday, October 30, 2012
Even People Who Work in Stores Sometimes Steal
Now why would an employee have to take a 4 hour theft class? Have you ever stolen something from your employer? This could be a towel if you worked in housekeeping for Hilton, or a pencil from Microsoft or IBM. Whether you worked for a huge Fortune 500 company or a small mom-and-pop restaurant in the sticks, the odds are you have taken something that did not belong to you.
Are You Guilty?
Of course there are varying degrees of theft. But remember - all theft is wrong! Is it worse to siphon $100,000 from corporate counts than to not return a pen that wound up in your shirt pocket? Of course there is! But both are morally wrong. Theft has to do with intent. If the shirt accidentally ended up in your pocket, it was a mistake. However, if you really wanted that pen and found it convenient to take, it is an offense. Look at the thinking process!
Retail Theft
As a recovering shoplifter, in other words as a former person who stole compulsively to fill a need, I can attest that store employees steal in a variety of ways. Today, it is actually considered theft if an employee spends time texting, tweeting or facebooking on paid company time. Back in my thieving days, we either stole the product ourselves or abetted our friends to pilfer the goods.
Either way - remember that we all pay for theft. All theft is bad. Even if you only went home with a company pen - take it back. Pens are cheap. Buy your own. Don't steal!
Are You Guilty?
Of course there are varying degrees of theft. But remember - all theft is wrong! Is it worse to siphon $100,000 from corporate counts than to not return a pen that wound up in your shirt pocket? Of course there is! But both are morally wrong. Theft has to do with intent. If the shirt accidentally ended up in your pocket, it was a mistake. However, if you really wanted that pen and found it convenient to take, it is an offense. Look at the thinking process!
Retail Theft
As a recovering shoplifter, in other words as a former person who stole compulsively to fill a need, I can attest that store employees steal in a variety of ways. Today, it is actually considered theft if an employee spends time texting, tweeting or facebooking on paid company time. Back in my thieving days, we either stole the product ourselves or abetted our friends to pilfer the goods.
Either way - remember that we all pay for theft. All theft is bad. Even if you only went home with a company pen - take it back. Pens are cheap. Buy your own. Don't steal!
Sunday, October 28, 2012
Why Theft Classes Are Mandated by Courts
Have you ever been arrested for stealing or shoplifting? If so, the judge probably ordered you to take a theft class and do community service as well.
As a counselor for both in class and online theft classes I may have had you in one of my classes. If courts throughout the country are mandating you take a stop theft class, the big question remains - why. What are your thoughts?
What the courts are trying to do is make sure you realize what you have done is morally wrong as well as illegal, as well as keep you from stealing again.
The first time I was sentenced to a class for breaking the law was traffic school. Have you ever been to traffic school? Initially I thought it was a big waste of time. It was so boring having to sit in a small, cramped hotel room and listen to the material. I had tried to tune it out, but eventually it sunk in.
I would be willing to bet that after attending traffic school you were more aware of the laws and a better driver, right? I thought so.
The same is true for a theft class online. They not only make the offender think about their offense, but also teach valuable techniques so that students can self-monitor their behavior and address problematic thinking before further problematic behavior occurs.
As a counselor for both in class and online theft classes I may have had you in one of my classes. If courts throughout the country are mandating you take a stop theft class, the big question remains - why. What are your thoughts?
What the courts are trying to do is make sure you realize what you have done is morally wrong as well as illegal, as well as keep you from stealing again.
The first time I was sentenced to a class for breaking the law was traffic school. Have you ever been to traffic school? Initially I thought it was a big waste of time. It was so boring having to sit in a small, cramped hotel room and listen to the material. I had tried to tune it out, but eventually it sunk in.
I would be willing to bet that after attending traffic school you were more aware of the laws and a better driver, right? I thought so.
The same is true for a theft class online. They not only make the offender think about their offense, but also teach valuable techniques so that students can self-monitor their behavior and address problematic thinking before further problematic behavior occurs.
Friday, October 26, 2012
If You Desire to Shoplift You Might Need an Impulse Control Class
Have you ever stolen anything? If so, what went through your mind when you decided to take a five-finger discount? Was it something you needed? Was it something you coveted? Was peer pressure involved? Perhaps, you stole it because you wanted to see if you could get away with it. Perhaps you wanted to feel a rush!
Stealing is wrong. Stealing is bad. We all pay for the cost of shoplifting. As a person with an addictive personality, and with behavior that includes compulsive theft, I understand virtually every rationale behind theft behavior.
As a counselor for both in class and online Impulse Control Class, I also am extremely motivated to keep my students from returning to the behavior that landed them in hot water in the first place.
A main reason why people steal is impulse. The first time I stole it was a friend who had dared me weeks earlier, who was watching me at the time, and was impressed by my successful theft of a pack of Wrigley's Juicy Fruit.
One of the best things to get from a stop theft class is the psychological understanding of impulse as it relates to theft. Control the impulse. Understand the consequences. Make the right choice. Take an online theft class.
Stealing is wrong. Stealing is bad. We all pay for the cost of shoplifting. As a person with an addictive personality, and with behavior that includes compulsive theft, I understand virtually every rationale behind theft behavior.
As a counselor for both in class and online Impulse Control Class, I also am extremely motivated to keep my students from returning to the behavior that landed them in hot water in the first place.
A main reason why people steal is impulse. The first time I stole it was a friend who had dared me weeks earlier, who was watching me at the time, and was impressed by my successful theft of a pack of Wrigley's Juicy Fruit.
One of the best things to get from a stop theft class is the psychological understanding of impulse as it relates to theft. Control the impulse. Understand the consequences. Make the right choice. Take an online theft class.
Wednesday, October 24, 2012
Why an Online Theft Class is Best
If you had to take a theft class what would you do? Would you prefer being physically present with an instructor in a classroom with 15-20 other students, or would you rather take the course over the Internet?
The Benefit of Physical Presentation
The primary benefit of physically attending a theft class is the energy a classroom setting generates. For anyone who has ever been to a music concert you can feel the energy the crowded atmosphere creates versus listening to your iPod at home. The interaction and discourse among students can help expand the material and enrich the overall experience.
The Benefit of Online Experience
In our busy lives, time is one of our most precious assets. Online stop theft classes offer complete convenience for students. The site is available 24 hours a day and you can go at your own pace. You are able to take it all in one sitting, or return to it as many times as you'd like. Another benefit for many people, is that it is anonymous. Some people who have a theft problem are embarrassed or ashamed by it. Taking a class in the privacy of your own home, gives you the material and education without the humiliation.
Given that the course material is the same, the benefit of convenience is the deciding factor for why an online theft class are best.
The Benefit of Physical Presentation
The primary benefit of physically attending a theft class is the energy a classroom setting generates. For anyone who has ever been to a music concert you can feel the energy the crowded atmosphere creates versus listening to your iPod at home. The interaction and discourse among students can help expand the material and enrich the overall experience.
The Benefit of Online Experience
In our busy lives, time is one of our most precious assets. Online stop theft classes offer complete convenience for students. The site is available 24 hours a day and you can go at your own pace. You are able to take it all in one sitting, or return to it as many times as you'd like. Another benefit for many people, is that it is anonymous. Some people who have a theft problem are embarrassed or ashamed by it. Taking a class in the privacy of your own home, gives you the material and education without the humiliation.
Given that the course material is the same, the benefit of convenience is the deciding factor for why an online theft class are best.
Monday, October 22, 2012
My Son Needs a Shoplifting Class
I remember the first time I got caught shoplifting. No, it was not by the police - it was by the person who knew me best - my mother.
I had stolen lots of things before that. It started with packs of chewing gum and candy bars, escalated to toys and baseball cards. When caught, my friend and I were opening the free game tickets issued by McDonald's and Kroger grocery. In an effort to win free fries or a hamburger, we had stolen an entire bag.
Chance to Change Course of History
My mother did not take this sitting down. She made my friend and I return the unopened tickets and admit to the store manager what we had done. My friend's parents were informed too.
What did not happen was a shoplifting class. Perhaps that would have changed the course of the next decade of my life. Getting caught and reprimanded stopped my theft behavior for a week (while I was grounded). However, I thought about stealing all the time and went right back to my shoplifting. It would cost me later.
Do not miss the opportunity to take a stop theft class early; it could mean the difference between a long, happy life and a life of crime.
I had stolen lots of things before that. It started with packs of chewing gum and candy bars, escalated to toys and baseball cards. When caught, my friend and I were opening the free game tickets issued by McDonald's and Kroger grocery. In an effort to win free fries or a hamburger, we had stolen an entire bag.
Chance to Change Course of History
My mother did not take this sitting down. She made my friend and I return the unopened tickets and admit to the store manager what we had done. My friend's parents were informed too.
What did not happen was a shoplifting class. Perhaps that would have changed the course of the next decade of my life. Getting caught and reprimanded stopped my theft behavior for a week (while I was grounded). However, I thought about stealing all the time and went right back to my shoplifting. It would cost me later.
Do not miss the opportunity to take a stop theft class early; it could mean the difference between a long, happy life and a life of crime.
Saturday, October 20, 2012
When Do You Need an Online Theft Class?
The answer to the headline above is very simple; you need a online theft class if you have problems controlling yourself and steal things. If you steal things just "for the fun and thrill of it" or constantly think about shoplifting you need a stop theft class.
Even if you have not stolen anything, but those problematic thoughts continue to surface, you would benefit from taking a theft class.
The Long Arm of the Law
The primary reason people need to take a theft class is due to a court-mandate. For first-time offenders and those with minor infractions, legal systems prefer rehabilitation which includes education.
Research has shown that education is a solid way to combat theft-related behavior. It also is a strong motivator to help prevent continued criminal activity after an offender has been caught.
If you have been caught stealing there is a very strong possibility that the court will order you to take a stop theft class. If you prefer to maintain total anonymity there are online stop theft classes.
Be Proactive
Even if you have not been caught stealing - yet - a theft class is still recommended. Stealing is a crime with serious penalties and although it can feel exciting, taking what does not belong to you has it's moral consequences as well.
Even if you have not stolen anything, but those problematic thoughts continue to surface, you would benefit from taking a theft class.
The Long Arm of the Law
The primary reason people need to take a theft class is due to a court-mandate. For first-time offenders and those with minor infractions, legal systems prefer rehabilitation which includes education.
Research has shown that education is a solid way to combat theft-related behavior. It also is a strong motivator to help prevent continued criminal activity after an offender has been caught.
If you have been caught stealing there is a very strong possibility that the court will order you to take a stop theft class. If you prefer to maintain total anonymity there are online stop theft classes.
Be Proactive
Even if you have not been caught stealing - yet - a theft class is still recommended. Stealing is a crime with serious penalties and although it can feel exciting, taking what does not belong to you has it's moral consequences as well.
Thursday, October 18, 2012
Finding the Best Theft Class
Why would you need to take a 8 hour theft class? The obvious answer is that you most likely got caught shoplifting or stealing. Perhaps your parents discovered your stealing behavior and think it's a good idea. Or maybe a judge has mandated a stop theft class.
So, how do you find the best class? It really it depends on a few factors.
First is convenience. We all have busy schedules so you need to find one close by and convenient for your schedule. Do you have the time to spend an hour in the car and another eight in a classroom? For many, an online stop theft class is the best option as it fits into any schedule, is reasonably priced, and is available 24/7. The other reason people prefer online stop theft classes, is because they are anonymous.
Next you have to find a class that is guaranteed. Has the course been court-approved? Will they refund your money should the class not be accepted? These are important questions when considering a stop theft class.
Theft and shoplifting are serious offenses. If you or someone you care about has a problem with theft you need to seek out a competent theft class.
So, how do you find the best class? It really it depends on a few factors.
First is convenience. We all have busy schedules so you need to find one close by and convenient for your schedule. Do you have the time to spend an hour in the car and another eight in a classroom? For many, an online stop theft class is the best option as it fits into any schedule, is reasonably priced, and is available 24/7. The other reason people prefer online stop theft classes, is because they are anonymous.
Next you have to find a class that is guaranteed. Has the course been court-approved? Will they refund your money should the class not be accepted? These are important questions when considering a stop theft class.
Theft and shoplifting are serious offenses. If you or someone you care about has a problem with theft you need to seek out a competent theft class.
Tuesday, October 16, 2012
Caught - Now I Have to Take a Shoplifting Class
Have you ever stolen anything? Odds are if you are reading this the answer is yes. If you have stolen anything, have you ever been caught? Odds are, if you have been caught, the judge ordered you to take a shoplifting class.
Do Not Panic
Things may seem bad now. Getting busted by the police is a very unsettling experience. Believe it or not, this may be the best thing to have happened to you. I am sure you have heard the term that you have to hit bottom before you can bounce back up. Well, if you have been caught shoplifting this could be the eye-opening, life-changing experience that will help you stop your aberrant behavior.
Find an Online Shoplifting Class
The first step is to decide not to steal anything at all, ever. Even if you have not been ordered to by a judge I recommend you take a stop theft class. Not only will this get you started on the right path, but will show the judge you understand what you did was wrong and are being proactive in your recovery. It will show you do not want to shoplift anymore.
Do Not Panic
Things may seem bad now. Getting busted by the police is a very unsettling experience. Believe it or not, this may be the best thing to have happened to you. I am sure you have heard the term that you have to hit bottom before you can bounce back up. Well, if you have been caught shoplifting this could be the eye-opening, life-changing experience that will help you stop your aberrant behavior.
Find an Online Shoplifting Class
The first step is to decide not to steal anything at all, ever. Even if you have not been ordered to by a judge I recommend you take a stop theft class. Not only will this get you started on the right path, but will show the judge you understand what you did was wrong and are being proactive in your recovery. It will show you do not want to shoplift anymore.
Monday, August 27, 2012
Early Theft Class Could Keep You Out of Jail
There are few people who would argue that education is bad thing. As a society we understand the value of knowledge. Knowledge is power!
It is one of the givens that stealing is wrong. That should be deeply ingrained in all of us at an early age. For most of us, our parents role model good behavior by not stealing. Some, however, do not have strong parental role models and this can lead to a life of crime and a life behind bars.
If was fortunate enough recently to visit Alcatraz. Among the many criminals who spent time there like Al Capone (tax evasion) there were many bank robbers. Jail is a horrible place, and unfortunately a good percentage of those arrested for shoplifting and other theft, steal again.
I propose a mandatory stop theft class for all children beginning at the age of 10. It should be part of the normal middle school and secondary curriculum. This could be done online at a place like stopltheftclass.com and done in the computer lab at school. One hour per week for eight weeks with a final exam at the end.
What do you think? I have found both in-class and online theft classes to be a good weapon in the battle against shoplifting and other forms of theft.
It is one of the givens that stealing is wrong. That should be deeply ingrained in all of us at an early age. For most of us, our parents role model good behavior by not stealing. Some, however, do not have strong parental role models and this can lead to a life of crime and a life behind bars.
If was fortunate enough recently to visit Alcatraz. Among the many criminals who spent time there like Al Capone (tax evasion) there were many bank robbers. Jail is a horrible place, and unfortunately a good percentage of those arrested for shoplifting and other theft, steal again.
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What do you think? I have found both in-class and online theft classes to be a good weapon in the battle against shoplifting and other forms of theft.
Thursday, August 23, 2012
Parents Can Keep Kids Out of a 4 Hour Theft Class
I hope all of you agree with me that parents should be good role models for their children. I mean how can they expect their kids to stay away from tobacco when they smoke a pack of Marlboros a day? How can they expect their kids not to drink when they see their parents boozing it up all the time? How can they keep their kids from shoplifting when they steal too?
As a counselor for both in-class and online stop theft classes I hear first-hand how many kids witnessed their parents steal or actually participated in a theft with their folks. What kind of parental behavior is that?
I recently counseled a student who had been arrested more than 10 times for shoplifting. She was only 19 years old. It seems impossible for that to be the case, but she stole to get her parents attention. She stole to make them proud. Her parents too were compulsive shoplifters. Not surprisingly both parents had spent significant amounts of time behind bars. My 19-year-old is headed in that direction.
After taking a 4 hour online theft class and counseling she has ceased her behaviors, even if her parents continue to steal. I have encouraged her to get her parents into one of my classes or into my office. At this point we can only hope that her parents are influenced by her positive behavior.
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